Introductions arrive Monday

Dating that fits around custody weeks.

A few introductions each Monday, to people near you in London who have all shown a government ID. So will you, before your first message.

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How a week works

Four things happen, and then the week is over. There is nothing to keep up with.

  1. 01

    The list arrives

    Monday morning

    Up to five introductions, chosen for your part of London and what you are hoping for. That is the whole list for the week.

  2. 02

    Say hello, or not

    Whenever suits you

    Say hello to anyone who interests you. Nobody is told you passed, and nobody is told you said hello unless they say it back.

  3. 03

    Talk

    Once you have both said hello

    A conversation opens, and you can see each other properly for the first time.

    A woman smiling at a message on her phone, her face resolving as the introduction is accepted
    Blurred until you both say hello

  4. 04

    Meet, when it suits you

    No deadline

    Take it at your own pace. Afterwards we ask one quiet question: did you two meet?

Everyone here has shown a government ID.

Not a selfie, not a phone number. A passport or driving licence, checked before anyone can send a first message. We keep the result, never a copy of your ID.

  • Checked before talking

    The rule lives in our database, so there is no way around it.

  • Your face stays private

    Photos are blurred until you have both said hello.

  • A person reads every report

    Report or block from any conversation, in two taps.

A hand holding a British passport
ID verified

What you will not find here

Each one was a decision, written down, and it is not coming back.

Free to join. Membership to talk.

Sign up, verify your ID and see your introductions without paying. Membership starts when you want to reply.

Monthly

£29 a month

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Three months

£69 every three months

Works out at £23 a month.

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Always free

  • Joining and ID verification
  • Your weekly introductions
  • Reporting and blocking

We never sell boosts, extra visibility or anything that makes you pay to be seen.

Questions people ask

Who is Second Act for?

Parents whose time runs to a custody or parenting schedule, and people starting over later in life after a long relationship ended. Each group has its own introductions and they never mix.

Why do I need to show ID?

So that everyone you talk to is who they say they are. It is the one thing every member has in common, and it is checked in our database rather than in the app, so it cannot be skipped.

Where is it available?

London only, for now. We would rather have enough real people in one city than a few in many.

Can I leave and take my data with me?

You can delete your account from your profile at any time. Everything we hold about you goes with it, including your photos.

Two people talking over coffee

The point is to meet.

Success here is not time spent in an app. It is a Tuesday coffee that turns into a Saturday walk.

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