Free until you want to talk.

Joining, showing your ID and receiving your five introductions each Monday cost nothing. Membership is what lets you write back, and you can stop it whenever you like.

Monthly

£29 a month

Renews every month until you cancel.

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Three months

£69 every three months

Works out at £23 a month.

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Always free

  • Joining and orientation
  • ID verification
  • Up to five introductions every Monday
  • Saying hello, and reading anything sent to you
  • Reporting and blocking

What the money pays for

The ID check on everyone

Every member is checked against a government document before they can send a first message. That check costs us money for each person, including the ones who never pay.

A person reading reports

Reports are read by a human being, not a filter. That is a real cost and it is the reason this is not free.

Nothing else

There is nothing to buy beyond membership. No boosts, no extra visibility, no seeing who liked you, no pay-to-be-seen of any kind.

About the money

When am I charged?

Only when you choose a plan and complete checkout. Stripe takes the payment and stores the card; we never see your card details. The first charge is immediate, and it repeats monthly or every three months until you cancel.

How do I cancel?

From your profile, under Membership. Cancelling stops the next payment and you keep writing until the end of the period you have already paid for. You do not have to email anyone or explain yourself.

What happens to my conversations if I stop paying?

They stay, and you can still read them and receive messages. You cannot write new ones until you are a member again. Nothing is deleted because you stopped paying.

Do you do refunds?

If something went wrong on our side, yes. If you simply changed your mind within the first fourteen days and have not used membership to write to anyone, ask and we will refund it.

Will the price change?

If it ever does, you will be told before it applies to you, and you can cancel first. We will not quietly raise the price of a membership you already have.

Start without paying.

Join, verify, and see who is actually near you. Decide about membership when someone says hello back.

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